PAUL E. KEITH
Biography
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Paul's vision was for a ministry that
would touch the lives of young and old through combining drama,
preaching and evangelism. He spoke often of his dream to lead a
traveling evangelistic team that would bring the Gospel message
through drama. His love for others flowed out in a sacrifice of
his own life for others. Just as Jesus laid His life down for us,
Paul in his life poured himself out in service to others. He had
a passion and zeal for life and he lived it to the full by putting
everything he had into everything he did. Here was a young man who
stood out from his peers. Here was a young man destined to be measured,
not by the number of beers he consumed or how high he climbed on
the social ladder, but by the number of lives he touched, by the
people who knew the presence of God in their lives in a deeper way
because of Paul's ministry.
Early Years
Swimming
Grade School through High School
Drama
Trinity Bible College
Even in Death
Quotes of friends, co-workers, teachers:
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Early
Years
Our son was born on February 24, 1978
at 9:42 AM at O'Connor's Hospital in San Jose, California. We named
our strong 8 lb. 9 oz and 22" inch baby boy Paul Edward Keith.
Even at the time of his birth, we had chosen to name him after the
apostle Paul and his paternal grandfather. Paul was not only strong
in the physical at birth (holding his head up within hours of being
born) but also in his life as his athletic pursuits show. In addition,
Paul was very dedicated and had great follow through, which was
evidenced that he was the only child who was not only born on his
due date but at the time a doctor's visit had already been scheduled.
Paul
was our third child to be born. He had an older brother Brian who
was seven years and five months older and an older sister Joy who
was two years two months older. With his siblings, it was a definite
blessing that he slept through the night within the first month
of his birth. Since he was nursed, we jokingly called him a "barracuda"
because of the aggressiveness and intensity with which he set his
mind to do or accomplish something. This too was characteristic
of his entire life.
When Paul was 13 months old, we moved from San Jose, CA. to Richland,
WA. The neighborhood in which we lived had just built a neighborhood
pool, which we joined. We frequently took the children up for a
swim. Much to his Mom's consternation, his Dad (a former lifeguard)
had encouraged Paul (at 17 months old) to jump off the diving board
and into Daddy's arms. This was something that Paul loved and he
continually wanted to "jump to Daddy." After jumping into
Daddy's arms he would just kick to the side of the pool. We jokingly
called him our "water baby." In addition to swimming,
Paul played t-ball and Little League, but swimming was always his
first love in sports.
Paul's baby sister Mary was born when he was 21 months old. Since
we had no extended family in the area, we spent time enjoying each
other. We did, however, make return trips down to visit Grandparents
in San Jose and San Diego.
Paul
did love life and God's creation. He thoroughly enjoyed being out
in nature. Our first extended camping trip was in a rented motorhome
to Yellowstone National Park. At the time when we took hikes Paul
had to be "coaxed." He did not like hiking with the family.
We alternated between either carrying him or encouraging him with
some candy. This, however, dramatically changed because later in
life he was always in the lead and the family rule was that he couldn't
get any further ahead than where we could see him. Even on his senior
class campout weeks before he was killed, some of his classmates
were angry because he kept such a fast pace and was so far ahead
even though he was the only one carrying the backpack.
Paul attended a Montessori Pre-school at four years old. Prior to
that, his education included what we were reading and the games
we were playing with his older sister Joy.

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Swimming
Paul was always a water bug. He began
competitive swimming at age six. By age seven he was swimming year
round for the Tri-City Channel Cats, affiliated with Inland Empire
Swimming, an Olympics development team. Paul was the top eight-year-old
swimmer in the Inland Empire. He held the Inland Empire record in
the breast stroke at eight years old. This was a record that he
held for at least five years.
His awards included:
1. 1987 Inland Empire Jr. Olympics -- High Point 8&U
2. 1986 Walla Walla Jr. Olympics -- High Point 8&U
3. 1986 Yakima Invitational -- High Point 8&U
4. 1987 Inland Empire Short Course -- A-Championship -- High Point
8&U
5. 1986 Eastmont Swim Team -- Christmas Invitational -- High Point
8&U
6. 1987 Inland Empire Swimmer Record Holder -- 50 yd. Breast stroke
8&U Boys
7. 1987 Inland Empire A Championship Meet Record -- 50 yd. Freestyle,
8&U Boys
8. 1987 Tri-City Channel Cats Team Record -- 50 yd. Freestyle, Boys
8&U
9. 1987 Tri-City Channel Cats Team Record -- 50 yd. Breaststroke,
Boys 8&U
10. 1987 Tri-City Channel Cats Team Record -- 50 yd. Butterfly,
Boys 8&U
11. 1987 Tri-City Channel Cats Team Record -- 50 yd. Backstroke,
Boys 8&U
12. 1987 Yakima Harvest Invitational -- High Point 9-10
13. 1986 EWRA -- Autumn Invitational -- High Point 8&U
14. 1986 TCCC -- Most Outstanding Swimmer 8&U
15. 1988 Inland Empire Swimming Zone Team
16. 1988 Far Western Short Course Championships
Even
after leaving year-round swimming, Paul stayed heavily involved
in swimming and aquatics. He volunteered at the Richland municipal
pool for five years as an aide. He earned his LGT (Life Guard Training)
certification in 1994, WSI (Water Safety Instructor) certification
in 1995 and LGI (Life Guard Instructor) certification in 1997. He
worked as a lifeguard at Richland and Dearborn, Michigan through
high school and college and trained other lifeguards. He coached
the Richland city pool swim team for 2 years before giving up that
position to do missionary work in Dearborn. His leadership was recognized
when he was promoted to the pool management staff as assistant head
lifeguard and then head lifeguard at Richland, supervising over
15 other guards. He was also head lifeguard at Dearborn.
Paul was always willing to help in whatever way he could. Mary Moore,
his 8th grade science teacher related an incident to us from his
high school years. She had asked him to lifeguard for a school swim
party. "After the swim party I stopped by Paul's house to leave
a check for him. I'm not sure you know Paul never cashed the check.
This really surprised me. You can't tell me that a high school student
has no need for extra money. He gave willingly of himself all through
his life."

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Grade School through High School
Paul attended Christ the King Catholic
School from kindergarten through 8th grade. He excelled academically,
consistently 1 ? to 2 ? years above grade level in Iowa skill tests.
In 1992, he received the 8th grade scholarship award and was selected
by his classmates as the one best representing Christian values.
He won First Prize in the school science fair in 1991 and won a
$100 savings bond in the Mid-Columbia Regional Science and Engineering
Fair plus the Institute of Electrical and Electronics Engineers
Merit Award, the National Aeronautics and Space Administration Award
for Creative Scientific Endeavor in Aerospace Research and the Washington
Society of Professional Engineers Auxiliary Award.
Paul
graduated from Richland High School in 1996 with a GPA of 3.5. He
received academic achievement awards in the Fall, 1993 and Fall,
1994. He participated in Running Start, a cooperative program with
the local junior college where high school students take college
classes and receive both college and high school credit. Paul entered
Trinity Bible College with 15 college semester credits.
Paul showed his willingness to serve regardless of personal sacrifice
from an early age. In the Catholic Church, he was an altar server
for three years and trained new altar servers as they began, often
sacrificing other activities. He taught pre-school, 1st and 2nd
grade Sunday school and was a reader at Mass. He also put in long
hours at the school's annual Sausage Fest with set-up, take-down
and garbage collection, helping wherever assistance was needed.
In the Assembly of God Church, he taught pre-school and 1st and
2nd grade Sunday School and was a leader in the youth group. He
rose early to attend Men's Intercessory Prayer at 6:00 AM on Friday
mornings. He was chosen by his peers and teachers to be one of two
Baccalaureate speakers out of a class of approximately 300.
Paul made a missionary trip to Mexico while in high school. In order
to earn money for college, he had to choose between missions work
in Mexico or a vacation in Hawaii. He chose Mexico.
From
about 6th grade on, he repeatedly declared he would be in full time
ministry, originally as a priest and later as a minister when his
affiliation moved from Catholic to Assembly of God. He was known
early on as "Father Paul" and later as "Preacher Paul". He was frequently
teased and ridiculed for his unabashed religious convictions, but
he would never back down from what he believed. He was a good listener
and many have commented about his being their counselor.
We have joked for many years about the time Mary at about age ten
declared, "I want Paul to marry me!" At first Mom and Dad puzzled
over how to explain the "facts of life" that you can't marry your
brother. Then we all had a good laugh when we realized that she
was referring to his performing the ceremony. We all agreed that
was a good idea and Paul promised he would. Mary was married on
June 30, 2000, but she had to find a substitute for the brother
who had made that promise ten years earlier.
Paul didn't just show leadership potential, he provided leadership.
Paul helped start a Christian Bible club at Richland High School
called Youth On Fire. He served as president in his senior year
and worked hard to network with Youth On Fire leaders from other
schools. Later he served in student government at Trinity Bible
College. He regularly donated blood and organized blood drives at
Trinity where they had not previously had them. He wanted the college
president to participate in his first blood drive, but when he spoke
to him he would not commit. The president, Dr. Young, told us Paul's
response was, "Are you a leader or a wiener?" Dr. Young was grateful
he could tell Paul he was going to be out of town because blood
made him squemish.
Another way that Paul showed leadership was in cheerleading. Richland High
had not had a male cheerleader in ten years. Paul stood up to the
ridicule and reestablished male cheerleaders.
He played basketball on the junior varsity squad and three years
in Little League baseball. In junior high he also spent three years
in Boy Scouts. Significantly, 8th grade was when his love of drama
was ignited.

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Drama
Paul loved drama and saw it as an important
tool of ministry. He continued his drama experience into high school,
being in Drama Club all four years. He appeared in:
1. Scapino (Lead)
2. The Outsiders (Lead)
3. Leader of the Pack
4. Up the Down Staircase
5. Sleep Tight Tonight
6. I Saw Another Butterfly
7. Fame
8. Night of January 16th (Lead)
His many drama awards included:
1. Lettered in Drama 1995, 1996
2. 1992-93 - Best Freshman Actor
3. 1994-95 - Best Junior Actor
4. 1995-96 - Best Back Stage Crew Male
5. 1995-96 - Most Inspirational
Paul's devotion to drama was not limited to just the high school
environment. During this period he also appeared in productions
by the Richland Light Opera Company of West Side Story, Meet Me
in St. Louis and Shenandoah in which he played a lead as one of
the sons.
Paul extended his use of drama to other areas. He participated in
the Government in Action Mock Trial. His English teacher, Mrs. Robin
Morris, said "My memories of Paul are so vibrant and alive, especially
as our current mock trial team goes to state. I will never forget
his showing up for districts with his head shaved! What a tribute
to his acting ability that he could be convincing as a principal
whose values were so opposite to Paul's. His memory will live on
for me and for other students as I share Paul's love of life and
his dedication with them."
He performed in Jazz Choir and Honors Chorale for two years. This
required that he be at daily 7:00 AM practices. His dreams included
combining drama and music in ministry. He performed several plays
at Richland Assembly and enjoyed doing human videos, performing
drama to a recorded song.
Charles Deyo, the father of Amy, Paul's fiancé, told us of a time
he saw Paul playing a hood in a drama. "I wasn't sure I wanted Paul
dating my daughter. He was so convincing, I wasn't sure it wasn't
really part of his past life."
Paul's work ethic was nothing short of extraordinary for his age.
He always took the personal initiative to skills necessary for life.
He had his own checking account from age 13. With a full academic
load, heavy involvement in sports and drama, Paul also held various
jobs. In grade school, he was a newspaper carrier, walking to deliver
papers at 5:30 AM and doing all the necessary financial reports.
In high school, he was a cook at Dairy Queen, a stock clerk and
checker for Payless Drug Store and a volunteer aide, lifeguard,
swim instructor, lifeguard trainer and swim coach. The clerks at
Payless comment about all the fights that Paul started; they all
fought to get Paul assigned to their area because he was such a
hard worker.

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Trinity Bible College
The best years of life for Paul were
at Trinity Bible College. Whereas he suffered repeated rejection
and ridicule for his strong Christian walk in grade school and high
school, at Trinity he was amongst his own. There he blossomed. There
he was fired with dedication to the call on his life to ministry.
There he solidified his vision for the use of drama in ministry.
Paul
graduated Magna Cum Laude (Honoris Causa) with a 3.74 GPA. He was
senior class vice-president and junior class president. Also he
was listed in "Who's Who Among College Students." He was elected
Freshman class vice-president, Junior class president and Senior
class vice-president, another testimony of his leadership being
recognized by his peers.
He was licensed as an Assemblies of God minister by the North Dakota
board, having completed all requirements and interviews before his
death. At the time of his death, he was interviewing for several
youth minister positions in the Mid-West and Plains states. Dr.
Leon Freitag, District Superintendent of the North Dakota District
Council of the Assemblies of God wrote us regarding Paul's licensing
interview, "Paul had a heart for God and was anxious to enter full
time ministry with his new bride, Amy."
At Trinity, Paul found the love of his life in Amy. Their romance
was legendary on campus. Paul was always coming up with new ways
to show his love - through a room full of balloons or two dozen
roses on Amy's desk. Amy's co-workers were jealous of the ways Paul
expressed his love and admiration to Amy and were amazed at his
creativity. Paul and Amy loved to take walks through the Aberdeen,
SD Storybook Land park or drive to ministry events. They would dream
together about their future ministry and their life together.
Paul
was absolutely committed to saving himself for marriage. He wore
a chastity ring as a symbol and a reminder of his commitment. When
he and Amy traveled to Washington, they drove without taking an
overnight stop to avoid even the appearance that they were staying
in a motel together. For that reason, they were on I-90 in Dear
Lodge at 3:30 AM on March 4, 2000.
Paul focused his life on giving. He sacrificed the month of May,
1997 to go on Spring Tour with the drama group Pure Heart. They
toured for that month putting on dramas and youth conferences. His
door was always open to classmates who needed someone to listen.
We have been told over and over again by his classmates how he touched
so many lives, how he stood out above the rest. The volleyball coach
that he worked with told us of how he had prevented the suicide
of one girl by ministering to her. When his nephew, Chris Keith,
was struggling with his parents' divorce, Paul was the only one
who could reach him.
Donovan Dock tells us of one incident of Paul's generosity. Donovan
came from a poor family and had never owned a suit. In his senior
year he received a preaching assignment and borrowed a suit from
Paul. The next week during chapel service Paul was wearing the same
suit and said to Donovan, "You like my suit?" Donovan said, "You
know I do." Paul replied, "It's yours." And he gave it to him.
Paul
had a passion to serve that seemed boundless. He was an usher and
greeter at the Ellendale Assembly of God and he frequently traveled
to Hope Assembly of God in Foreman, ND to help them establish that
church. He had preached at Hope Assembly, Richland Assembly, Word
of Faith Center in Kennewick, WA, Church of the Nazarene in Oakes,
ND and at Trinity Bible College chapel services. He loved to use
illustrated sermons, combining drama and preaching. Once when he
preached to the youth group at Word of Faith Center, to demonstrate
stripping off the things of the old man, he stripped down to swim
trunks. Then to show how Satan distorts our view of the world, he
stood on his hands. That sermon is still talked about in the youth
group 3 years later.
The summer of 1999 he resigned from head lifeguard of the Richland
city pool to take a lifeguarding job in Dearborn, Michigan. This
job was lower pay plus he had to pay his own living expenses, but
his goal was ministry to Muslim children in the inner city. To that
end he was willing to make whatever sacrifice it took.
While at Trinity, he refereed and coached volleyball. He volunteered
as a coach for two years in Fredrick, SD. He was named coach of
North Star Junior High, Fredrick, SD and assistant varsity coach
at Fredrick High School. In addition he assisted the Trinity volleyball
coach for three years.

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Even
in Death
Even in death, his final act of giving
through organ donation today continues to give life to others. Mrs.
Mary Moore, Paul's 8th grade science teacher told us, "I remember
he (Paul) talked to me about being an organ donor one day when he
was in my 8th grade science class. He knew then that he was going
to have that on his driver's license one day." Organ donation required
that we answer several pages of questions regarding drug and alcohol
use, sexual activity, etc. They were easy questions for us, but
we recognized how many parents in that situation would have a very
difficult time, either because they were not close to their child
or their child's life made the answers difficult.
The
entire focus of Paul's life was on building others up, seeing their
lives touched for the better. Whether through drama, preaching,
mentoring, an encouraging word or just a smile, he sought to be
a servant. At his funeral, approximately 600 people attended, many
commenting on how Paul had touched their lives in a special way.
Gill and Corinne addressed those gathered:
"To 'The Bud' (Paul):
When you were small, we carried you.
As you grew, we cheered you on.
When you reached a point of decision, we let you fly.
Whether you were exploding from the swimmer's starting blocks, captivating
the audience in a school play, or declaring the Word of God from
the pulpit, we were always proud of you. We have no regrets, Paul.
Now we release you one last time. Fly on home. Give Amy our love.
We'll see you on the other side.
Our love always, Ma and Pops
To All Our Friends,
We've come to the final chapter, time to close the book. Hopefully
you can agree with me, I'd like to read that story again. I believe
we will read this life again in hundreds and thousands of lives
that Paul has touched in life and in death. As we conclude, please
hear Paul say to each of us, 'Remember, Jesus loves you.'
With our love and thanks,
Gill and Corinne and family"
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Quotes
of friends, co-workers, teachers
Acronyms:
CK Christ the King grade school and junior high school
RHS Richland High School
TBC Trinity Bible College, Ellendale, ND
"You are an inspiration to me because you make a stand for what
you believe and that is really great. Thanks for giving me an example
to live up to." Sarah, 1996 RHS Yearbook
"You (Paul) practiced what you preached and preached what you practiced."
Darryl J., 2000 TBC Yearbook
"You (Paul) have encouraged me and lifted me up more times than
I can count!. Thanks for all the memories of friendship and ministry."
Stacey Jo, 2000 TBC Yearbook
"There isn't a person who hasn't been touched in some way by you,
Paul, that I know of. Thanks for being who you could be best in
Jesus." Susan Healy, 2000 TBC Yearbook
"Paul, thanks for being there for me when I needed you and for all
the encouragement you gave me." Jason Art, 2000 TBC Yearbook
"Many lives have been touched by yours as you always showed the
love of the Lord." Lynette, 2000 TBC Yearbook
"I"ll miss his big smile." Mrs. Rose Martin, Kindergarten Report
Card, 1984.
"Good sense of justice and fair play. Love his exuberance! He is
polite and responds to correction graciously. His 'dramatics' in
storytelling really warms my heart!" Mrs. Charlene Sorenson, First
Grade Report Card, 1985
"He's impacted my life with footprints that are set in stone. Footprints
that cannot be washed away by new friends or new faces. He is one
of those people you hang onto even through death... He was definitely
a man of God." Rachel Neis (Josh Ernst's sister)
"While watching him cheer at RHS games or acting in a play, he put
his all into everything he did. What a special young man you two
had." Randy & Mary Peterson
"His love of God and life shone so brightly." Libby Watrous
"Paul was a delightful young man, full of enthusiasm and love of
God. We will always remember his shining countenance, how his face
would light up in animation as he would talk to us." Cliff & Karen
Yeager, family friends
"... he (Paul) did a drama presentation for a song sung by Ray Boltz
about the sacrifice Jesus made on the cross. It was a very powerful
interpretation of the song." Duane McKeown
"Paul's life spoke volumes of the parents he honored through Jesus
Christ whom he loved and served. He stood apart from the average.
He came to serve with a reverence and joy I had not seen in the
young people serving in this ministry. His dress was clean and appropriate,
he sang boldly all the songs and spoke with confidence with all
the prayers. But most of all he rendered assistance where it was
needed. Paul was kind to all the little kids and would not yell
or flaunt his authority to make himself seem important. It was evident
to my family that Paul's life made a difference and the light he
shared with anyone came from the love and obedience of the Lord
which was taught to him by loving parents." Murphy family (Christ
the King altar serving years)
"Paul was a tremendous blessing to our family as our daughter Kelly
went through her teenage years. Paul mentored her greatly as she
grew. I have many memories of Paul's honesty, sincerity and compassion
as he dealt with his ministry even as a youth." Sheila Diaz
"I can still see him standing in front of me with caring eyes and
strong hands saying, ' Lin, quit your worrying, God's in control
and everything is going to be OK.' " Falinda Haldorson, former girlfriend
"Paul's voice will continue to speak to all who knew him." Sandy
Armstrong,
"A few weeks ago we were at Amy's discussing our goals and future
youth ministry plans. Perhaps the hardest part of all this is to
have known the dream and drive that was within him." Twyla Kuntz
"Paul was a shining light so full of vigor and vision. I see his
unbridled welcoming smile each and every time I think of him." Ellen
Tomaszewski
"My memory of Paul is of a young man full of life who always had
a twinkle in his eye." Eleanor & LeRoi Rice
"Paul enjoyed the life God gave him and taught us to do the same."
Mary Brubaker
"One of my seniors had a brother commit suicide shortly after Christmas.
Paul was able to minister and encourage her through some of her
grieving. He also ministered to another senior who had attempted
suicide during the volleyball season. He listened to both of these
girls and sought them out either before or after practice to see
how they were doing." Brenna Lavold (Varsity Volleyball Coach, Fredrick
High School)
"Paul always had the hugest smile on his face and was always looking
to the Lord and standing on the Word of God in all situations."
Nikki Demers
"Paul filled the pulpit in the absence of our pastor. He was so
free and at ease as he preached. He was a real blessing to us."
Oakes ND Church of the Nazarene
"Always polite, with a bright friendly smile and rosy cheeks." Anne
Silva
"Of all the people I've met in my life no one will replace the spot
in my heart I hold for Paul. He was the person I most wanted to
be like. How he lived his life with kindness toward everyone. Never
judging or putting down anyone's feelings. He was the neatest person
I've ever known." Brooke Peterson Hadlock
"Paul had a joy for the Lord that I wanted and he had a trust in
the Lord I wanted. He was so quick to remind me of the Lord's control
in all situations. He was always filled with enthusiasms about something
or other; as far as I could see, he took great joy in the life God
had given him." Doug Laity
"Paul was a sweet caring young man who had the love of God." Kristin
Campbell
"Knowing Paul was a breath of fresh air!! All that knew him will
truly miss that smile and all he had to offer." Penny Taylor (Payless)
"Paul was truly one of the nicest young men I have ever known. His
loving heart and smiling face will be missed terribly." Trudy (Payless)
"Paul was exactly the type of young man I would wish my daughter
would bring home. You can be so proud." Debbie Sutter (Payless)
"Paul was an exemplary young man and made a powerful impression
on those of us who came to know him." Dr. Howard Young (President
Trinity Bible College)
"I will always remember him for his great enthusiasm and love for
the Lord. He was both a servant and a leader. I have no doubt that
he touched the lives of many in his short time on earth." Megan
Lan
"I can clearly remember Paul the last time he came to our house.
He looked so handsome and grown up but had the same mischievous
smile we had all grown so fond of." Magda Uriarte (Christ the King
classmate's mother)
"After the swim party I stopped by Paul's house to leave a check
for him. I'm not sure you know Paul never cashed the check. This
really surprised me. You can't tell me that a high school graduate
has no need for extra money. He gave willingly of himself all through
his life. Paul was involved in sports with the other boys at Christ
the King School. Occasionally he asked for a ride home, since we
live in the same neighborhood. He made sure I knew his mom didn't
want him listening to OK 95, the popular radio station among young
adults. I just left the radio off and we talked instead. Paul always
did the right thing whether people were watching or not. His inner
drive to serve God was so strong.... I know that through donating
his organs and tissues he has given others a chance for a better
life for generations to come. I remember he talked to me about being
an organ donor one day when he was in my 8th grade science class.
He knew then that he was going to have that on his driver's license
one day. If I could talk to Paul right now, I would tell him that
I have learned a lot from him that I will remember for my whole
life. I am so thankful that our paths crossed, although the time
was so brief." Mary Moore (Christ the King 8th Grade Science Teacher)
"Paul was like a second brother to me. He even called me brother
every time he saw he. He was always interested in how things were
going in my life. I remember that he had a giving heart. The Christmas
you guys went to Hawaii, he bought me a wallet. We had been shopping
and I had said how I really needed and wanted a new wallet. It turned
out that it was under the tree with his name on it. He sure blessed
me. You should be very proud of your son. You definitely fulfilled
your duties of raising a godly son." Zach Ernst
"I remember Paul as Josh's first close friend at college. They were
buddies almost from day one. He was friendly and always smiling,
serious about his schoolwork, too. We had a lot of fun when Paul
joined our family for Thanksgiving 1996 in Des Moines. My sisters
both commented on how he offered to help clean up and do dishes...
Paul was 'the voice of God' during Josh's drama at the beginning
of his sermon. During the altar call, Paul was up front kneeling
by his classmates and praying with them with a hand on their shoulders...
Josh said he and Paul were 'accountability partners' so they prayed
for each other and told each other private things. Then they'd ask
one another how it was going when struggling in a certain area.
I'm so thankful to God that Paul was Josh's good friend. On their
senior trip to the Black Hills last month, Josh mentioned the group
had a 'hot seat' and they told each person how much they were appreciated...
Josh was glad he said all those things to Paul.." Karen Ernst
"He lived the Christ life as a stellar example." Rev. John Katter
(Chairman of Biblical Studies, TBC)
" He exemplified the greatest character of his Christian testimony
in the way he studied and prepared for tests. He was always the
first one done and yet got the best scores in the class. I will
always remember Paul and the example he set to the student body
and myself." Rev. Terry Evenson (Chairman of Fine Arts Dept., TBC)
"I remember seeing Paul come to Trinity his first year. He was full
of zeal and excitement and a true love for God and the ministry.
That excitement never dwindled, he encouraged me with his passion
for God and ministry." Jonathan Winter
"Paul was one of the most encouraging people I ever knew. Paul was
always willing to travel a long distance just to be a part of someone's
wedding or special occasion, just to be a part of their lives. He
impacted many lives." Mary Winter
"Paul was a great inspiration in my life through his encouraging
words and smile. I had the privilege of beginning with him in 1996
and working by him as a class officer." Jen Bauchspess
"A joy to be around. When I was down he was always there to pick
me up." Jim C.
"Paul was a blessing to me with his smile and happy Christ-like
attitude." Paul P.
"Paul was a blessing to myself and everyone else he touched." Dave
Andrewski
"Your son was a legendary man of God. He not only knew God's Word,
but he lived it to the end." Serena Eich
"Paul was an inspiration to us all." Amy and Rob Rasmussen
"Paul was the biggest encouragement to me." Cindy Osterberg
"I worked with Paul in maintenance. He was a great guy to work with.
Always uplifting, hard-working and fun. I am so glad I got to know
him. He truly blessed my life." John Swanson
"Paul was always uplifting to those he met." Gwen Twedt
"Paul was a student in several of my classes from his Freshmen year
until this present semester. He was a brilliant student, always
prepared and made wonderful contributions in class. He was also
one of the most respectful students I've ever taught. I was always
delighted to say that he was one of my English students." Dr. Lavonne
Larson (TBC)
"I was fortunate to teach Paul's Biology class at RHS. I need you
to know how your son has touched many lives 'through' me. I almost
quit teaching the year I had Paul in class, yet his spirit rubbed
off on me. I have taught several years since, touching the lives
of over 2,000 students. I often draw on his motivation, good spirit
and genuine character to inspire the kids around me. I thank Paul
and I thank you." Troy Fulton (RHS Biology teacher)
"Paul was a great friend and 'pastor.' He may have never been ordained
but he's always been a preacher! I always looked up to him." Kristen
Wheat
"Like everyone else, we always thought that Paul was truly a wonderful
boy and a joy to be around." Jim and Sharon Clemetson
"Paul was the one person who truly helped me with my faith; that
is now stronger because of him." Michelle Adams
"Dale and I have fond memories of Paul, mostly from his involvement
in the Scout Troop at C.K. Paul was the one who loved to do the
opening and closing prayer. He was young then but was not embarrassed
to pray out loud!! Most of the other guys stood back and gladly
let Paul pray. He was a very special young man and God had His hand
on him from an early age." LouAnn Schielke
"Paul made such a positive impact on my children as part of the
Richland Assembly youth group." Sandy Cordes
"We remember what a joyful, enthusiastic person Paul was, how easily
he laughed. Heaven must be a bit brighter with his presence." Mary
Snitily
"My brother was on a youth ministry team with Paul. Casey thought
a lot of him. Paul had an impact on Casey's life. He really needed
that... He was a man who loved God. His life is a challenge to me
to live better." Reese Stephan
"I never met such a hard worker. You really are a pleasure to have
in my cast." Angie (Richland Light Opera Drama Director)
"I remember Paul as a man of strong convictions. He lived what he
believed in every way. His life challenged me. I looked to him as
one of the most promising leaders I've ever known. I guess you could
say that earned my admiration and respect. He greatly deserved it.
Paul lived to serve others." Chuck Lippert
"I stood in awe of his drama abilities. He taught our team a solo
human video. He also helped train us for 'Heart's Aflame' and inner
city ministry team. By his help, we were able to reach children
for Christ. He always made me laugh." Sara Beth Borho
"I will always remember his voice, his smile, his always willing
to serve, his heart he had for God and the way he always strived
to be a man after God's own heart. A wonderful example of how to
live a life of godliness." Christy Marie Groah
"I recall the times that you'd come into the dorm to do maintenance
work and I'd sarcastically tease you. You'd always put a smile on
my face and I thank you for that." Michelle Mc Errory
"When I first met Paul, he was helping another friend and when I
saw him, I always saw the love of Christ through his life. I never
saw him without a smile upon his face and whenever I would be down
on myself he was always able to lighten my life just by smiling."
Janine Tennancorn
"Paul always had something encouraging to say." Lisa Borgwerdt
"Paul was a man that chased after the presence of God. Countless
mornings I found Paul pacing the floors of TBC sanctuary to do what
he knew best - love God. His love for people was amazing." John
Trotter
"Paul helped me with cheerleading and stunting. I will remember
the twinkle in his eye - Jesus Joy." Sherry Grimshaw
"Paul is an inspiration, a true man of God. He had a way of keeping
us accountable and all who knew him felt like someone was always
watching out for us." Kena Blissard
"Over the 3 ? years I've known you, you've always made me laugh
or smile every time we talked. You will be deeply missed." Shendell
"Your Paul lived life fully and with so very much enthusiasm, what
a blessing he was to all who knew him. Paul's love for life and
others was marvelous to behold. I think Paul knew from a very young
age that God had a special call on his life and he answered it."
Darlene Cole
"I know Paul mainly by his legacy, he's always been out there in
his faith." Angie Philips
"Paul was an encouragement to me and still is. I will always remember
him and his undying love." Tarah Troutman
" Paul has been a blessing to so many. I know I used to watch him
when he did his human videos in church or when he preached and just
marvel at his zealousness for Jesus." Gina Tedeschi
"Paul started on the swim team as the youngest swimmer his first
year and continued on to become a wonderful swimmer and instructor.
What a positive and inspirational person he was to the young people
on his team." Kathy Spane (swim coach)
"Paul was never afraid to share the gospel in high school. I just
wanted to say thanks for not being ashamed of the Gospel of Christ.
Thank you for the inspiration." Sarah Weaver
"What a blessing to us Paul was - his wonderful smile would brighten
a whole room! When he would come home on break he would come to
us and say 'Do you need a break from teaching Sunday school?' Our
answer was always YES! I was in a Christmas drama with Paul and
others, we had such fun. In my scene I was supposed to get a little
water splashed on me. Well, he made sure I had a lot of water on
me! When he was headed back to school he would come into the office
and tell us goodbye and pass around the hugs. His ministry will
live on, he affected and reached out to so many people." Wanda Anderson
"The last memory that I have of my dear friend Paul is one of joy
and excitement. Not only was I able to introduce my new husband
to him, but also celebrate the things to come in his precious life.
He was all smiles (I love his smile) and excited and happy and grown
up. P.S. Paul & I were in RHS Drama together and had many laughs
and fun. He is a joy." Alyssa Morgan
"I met Paul in my Senior year at RHS in Drama. I was the 'new kid'
from Minnesota. His light and smile touched me then and is with
me now. The memory of Paul in drama is one of my happiest from high
school." Sarah Day
"I loved Paul right from my first meeting with him in the parking
lot of Word of Faith Center. It was a 4th of July picnic and the
basketball hoops were up. We played '21' and he won! I regret not
having gotten to know him better but I knew him well enough to know
that his love for me was sincere and unfeigned. I don't run across
that kind of love often enough to take it for granted." James Boggan
"Paul was a great inspiration and example of a sold out believer,
full of passion for life and God's kingdom. I've been privileged
to have him be a part of Richland Assembly's youth and a godly example
to my teen daughters." Becky Hall
"I first got to really know Paul through the 'Refugees' Drama Team
which he led. Paul was an awesome man of God whom I always respected."
Kari Dunham
"I don't know of anyone else I have met who was more an example
of Christ than Paul." Phil Wade
"I had a great deal of respect for Paul. He helped change my life.
He meant a lot to my brother. He helped change my brother which
I'm thankful for." Brian Wade
"Paul was always willing to help out in Kid's Church when we were
short handed. He was so good with those kids." Brent and Cailey
Dumler
"We loved Paul's drama. I especially like the one where he 'as Christ'
was pulling souls out of the very pits of hell." Pearl Richards
"I never knew Paul personally, but I always looked up to him as
a leader for our youth group. I remember very vividly one of his
drama performances where he portrayed Jesus on the cross. It was
so real. I think that was the first time I really understood what
Jesus actually went through." Sarah Hall
"It was so wonderful the way Paul encouraged each of us, no matter
how young or old we are. His zeal for God infects us all." Judge
Gene and Linda Pratt
"Thank you for sharing with us such a great young man of God. As
the Founder of Youth On Fire, I can say Paul played a big part in
the birth of such a great godly organization. He was one of our
first Youth on Fire officers and we gained much from your son's
contribution." Pastor Kevin Truett
"Paul stood out in the crowd." Barbara Brackenbush
"When Paul and Glory were going together for that short period of
time, I was always impressed that he never 'gave the appearance
of evil.' If you were not home and he had to go in for something
he always had Glory sit in the car. He was always such a gentleman!"
Janice Wheat
"How can I write memories of such a wonderful, inspirational person
who I watched grow from a toddler into manhood? As I watched him
grow in joy, love, kindness, goodness, gentleness and self-control,
I who am 69 years old looked up to him as an example." Bill Hitt
(neighbor for 21 years)
"I don't remember him not smiling. One of our daughters reminded
me of how concerned and helpful he was when our house caught fire,
bringing Bill the mail and so loving." Paige Hitt (neighbor for
21 years)
"Paul was always happy and smiling. He taught my children's swimming
classes and made their class time more fun." Devin and Panny Shelby
"As humor was a part of Paul's life, I will always remember the
fun we had pulling off my sister's surprise birthday party. She
had no clue about it. She walked in and there was no end to her
shock. Paul had a great time watching us all." Sarah Hatch
"He was always encouraging or teasing me. He helped me become who
I am today and always made me feel of worth." Trudy Hatch
"He teased me, comforted me, advised and encouraged me. He is a
true friend. He always had kind and positive words to say about
his family." Rebekkah Borup
"He was my daughter's first 'love.' When she was 11 she had a huge
crush on him. He was so kind and patient with her, treating her
with kindness and respect and love. He made her feel important,
not like a silly pre-teen. I am grateful... that her first crush
was a man of Paul's stature for it continues to affect her judgment
in her life's choices. The years they spent together first with
him as her coach, then when she worked with him, are some of the
sweetest experiences of her life." Michele Borup
"I knew Paul through my daughter. He was her swim coach. He came
into her life at a crossroads and his influence and belief in her
pulled her upwards and helped her see how special she is. Though
of another faith, Paul helped her adhere to the values of her own
faith! Our whole family loves Paul and enjoyed the time he spent
in our home as he nurtured our daughter's self esteem and became
one of her most beloved friends. He also reached out to her sister
who needed his friendship." Sherry and Marshall Hatch
"Paul's work with us and the other kids at George Prout pool touched
our lives. He was so good with all age levels. His energy and personality
helped the kids do their very best." Sonja and Tara Torres
" As a member of Richland Assembly, we had the pleasure of seeing
Paul grow in his faith and talent in drama. He had a powerful presence
as a person and the anointing of God on his life." Cathy and Rachael
Aeling
"All night long I kept seeing Paul as 'the little mouse' in 'Kid's
Praise.' It was a blessing to see him grow and mature in the Lord."
John and Cindy Dorian
"We loved Paul. He was a man of God, passionate and zealous. We
really appreciated his faithfulness and reliability. He helped us
a lot in Children's ministries and we knew that we could always
count on him. If he said he would be there, he was there! We loved
his vibrance and his sense of humor." Pastor Mark & Linda Minaker
(Children's Pastor, Richland Assembly)
"I want you to know how much of an impact Paul's life has made on
me. You see, I wasn't a believer. In these past months I've been
growing closer to God. Being here today, I was touched by God for
the first time. I believe Paul has helped me find God. Sitting here
I feel complete." Alessandra Jorge
"He was always so polite and had a wonderful sense of humor. It
was also very evident to me that Paul was an exceptional Christian
young man." Margaret Cannon
"Paul was not only a wonderful friend but an inspiration. No matter
what I did in my life Paul was always there by my side. And he was
right there when I had my first born son. Paul is and was amazing.
There's not enough paper in the world to explain." Janene Payne
As Paul's cheer coach at RHS, I want to thank you for such a wonderful
human being. Our circle was inspired, touched and always encouraged
by Paul's positive energy and honest spirit." Wendy White
"To have been so young in earthly years, the lives touched by Paul,
not for Paul, but for Christ, is astounding to our feeble minds.
We thank God for his precious spirit." Jeannne Heiman
"What a mighty man of God. His life was a testimony to all." Justin
and Jana Farley
Paul was a young man full of the Holy Spirit and fire! I loved the
twinkle in his eyes and incredible passion for God and everything
he did and believed in. His life has and will continue to impact
all of us. I want to share a phone call I received from the church
secretary from Lisbon, North Dakota Assembly of God. She said, 'Paul
was really something!' She went on to say that she always took notes
in church, but normally threw them away. However, she said she was
so impacted that she had kept the notes in her Bible from his message."
Leah Elliot (Sr. Pastor Darrell Elliott's wife from Richland Assembly
of God)
"Paul blessed my life many times at our church. He was a young man
you noticed because he stood out among the rest. He had such passion
and commitment in what he did. In skits he was in, he put his all
into it. When I heard him preach, he put his all into it. I believe
whatever Paul was called to do he put himself completely into it.
Just like Jesus gave His all -- Paul gave his all for Jesus." Joanne
Erickson
"My wife and I had friends who were virtually unsaved at the service,
and we know their lives were touched, and the ministering has changed
their lives. Just as Paul would have wanted." Paul and Nicole Lindberg
"Paul was never afraid to share the gospel in high school. I just
wanted to say thanks for not being ashamed of the Gospel of Christ."
Sarah Wauine
"There is one who stands above the rest;
One who followed hard after God's call.
Encourager and friend, he was the best,
We will never forget, our friend Paul.
We will see you once again, you can bet.
Friends forever, friends we'll never forget." Poem entitled "Friend's
Forever" by TBC classmate
"Paul will inspire me as he always did. When I remember the times
we had. I praise God for putting Paul in my life. It is better for
having known him." Rev. Mindy Rhinehart
"Paul was an example and a blessing to everyone that knew him. We
were glad to have had him in our lives." Jamie and Adam Ewing
"Paul my friend, you were a challenge and an encourager... a joy
to laugh with and a friend to be proud of. Your character and spirit
will carry on in the part of me that you helped to shape." Anna
"Paul was an awesome friend! He was like a brother to me. He always
cared and took time for everyone else! He loved everyone -- a very
un-selfish person -- Man of God!" Stacey Thompson
"Paul was a very positive person. He had a smile when no one else
could find one. He also was willing to help whenever asked. He cheerfully
helped others. He took time to be personally involved with others.
I will miss him and his example to all of us." Mike Iverson
"He was so caring about and towards everyone." Melissa Harmon
"Paul was a great inspiration to me and an example of true Christianity.
I will miss him and his influence greatly." Crystal Ruff
"Paul was a great friend and encourager. You could always turn to
him for advice. He ministered in ways you never knew." Jamie Moore
"Paul was a one-of-a-kind! He was always the one to make you laugh
but at the same time to think." Carla Buckmaster
"Paul had such a passion for the dream God had given him." Liebe
Fledderjohann
"What a great man of God and a great example to us all in how we
should live our lives. I never heard a discouraging word come out
of his mouth even though there were times when he was truly frustrated.
Looking back on his life really challenges me to simply walk the
walk. I thank Paul for being an example of what it means to be a
Christian. I will look back on his life to remind myself what it
means to live for Christ -- simply serving and loving people." Jeremy
Harris
"I met Paul on a Youth Ministry team in 1998. At first he scared
me because he seemed so strong and sure of himself, but through
the many road trips we became friends. He always had time to listen,
even if I was just complaining, and he gave the very best hugs.
(Smiley face) His life is an example to me. I will always remember
how he would yell my name across campus if he saw me walking just
to ask how I was. Thank you Jesus, that I got to meet his amazing
man." Kirsten Horn
"It would take me a book to write all the things I remember about
Paul. He was a great guy, probably the nicest I've ever met and
I consider it a great honor and privilege to have been his friend.
I think it can be said that he taught us all a great many things."
Jeff Marusich
"One day this semester, as we were talking about graduation, Paul
turned to me and said, with his million-dollar voice, 'You are right,
Bliss Bess, I will miss you.' Then he smiled with his million-dollar
smile and a twinkle in his eye... He was like the energizer bunny,
he would keep encouraging people, and he would hardly every get
down himself... Paul was a good friend that was spiritually challenging,
as well as mentally challenging...When Paul was asked to be a senior
speaker, Paul asked my husband Chris and I to do drama during his
sermon. Paul had a way of combining drama with preaching that was
incredible. We were honored to minister with him... Looking back,
it was remarkable what God did with a cocky drama guy from Washington.
He ended up being a humorous, friendly, loving, humble servant of
the Lord. My husband and I both loved and appreciated Paul. I can
honestly say my life is very different, having known Paul. Through
Paul, God showed me what he can do through a willing vessel."
Rev. Bliss Bess Krappman

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